Are you at the end of yourself? Does it seem like things just aren't going according to your plans?
I know exactly how you feel girl. You made all of these plans to be married by 25, millionaaire by 35, private island by 40, and they fell through! You start doing all of these "things" to make yourself (look) successful but you still end up failing. Like come on God when is it going to be my turn!?
Can I tell you that you're in the perfect positioned to be used by God. You're not being punished, He's simply trying to get your attention. He wants to show you a different path, the pathway that was created for you. Girl, it's time to stop trying to make something happen and just Surrender!